Loneliness

Have you ever been lonely? Have you ever felt this hollowness? If the answer to this qestion is yes, then I hope you never want it to come back. But nevertheless there are people who like to be alone. Alone, but not lonely. I suppose those people who say they like to be lonely really do not like it. They just once and forever decided that the world is so cruel and hostile that it is better for them to stay alone and never trust to anyone. Poor people they are.
I think, many people, and I am not an exception, are afraid of being lonely in the future, especially in old age. When people are young they are usually active and seldom lonely. Everyone has a couple of friends, dozens of acquaintances. In the wirl of communication we do not think jf ourselves to be lonely.
The most horrible time is when your children have already left home and built up their own families. The things might be still worse if you are divorced or your husband or wife had died. That is where the real loneliness begins. The solution of the problem exists. In many countries people suggest this time to be the best of the whole life as you have nobody but yourself to think about. You can devote all your free time on your favourite hobbies or to take up travelling.

Harm of Loneliness

Stress, accelerate the pace of life, mood, loneliness and lack of love - all this takes its network of modern woman, leaving her alone with each other and ... refrigerator. Jam their problems - typically feminine caprice. That is what will make a man, if he leaves the favorite? Right, it will soothe the mountain in the company of friends. A desperate girl? Eat chocolate. One, two dozen ... Then pick up the weight and having shocked at changes in the mirror, decided that «and now I am just no love! » And then revert to a best friend - the refrigerator.
Chocolate bars and cakes - just a temporary replacement of love. No, of course, you can skip a hand to recruit dozens of kilograms, to replace the 42nd in the size of the 52nd. However, the desire to love and be loved still remain. Protect yourself from fat!
Most vulnerable to over-eating are single young women with concerns about their appearance. The absence of love creates vulnerability. An attempt to protect themselves, how to hide deeper personal problems led to the appearance of wrinkles. «Under the thickness of fat, I’m unbeatable» - this idea is hidden in the subconscious.
And yet, according to psychologists, the desire for something and gnaw the mask sexual hunger. A good doctor prescribed would in this case, a kiss for breakfast, passionate embrace for dinner, rather than a kilogram of chocolates.
BEWARE OF hunger
Love suffering brunt of loneliness and self-doubt - that the only reason for increasing the weight (we're not talking about the physiological causes, such as endocrine diseases). You know the feeling of HUGE hunger, thirst to go into the food «bout» problems and harmful, calorie diet? This hunger is not physiological, but rather a sincere, if a drug is selected food. Yes, it fills your stomach, but still does not avoid the emotional emptiness.
Why is this happening? Overeating under stress psychologists explain that people deprived of love, is the most readily available source of pleasure - food. Carbohydrates, like love, sex, forced to stand out in the blood endorphins - hormones of happiness - and we'd like a pound of candies, feel unusual euphoria and carbohydrate «intoxication».